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Monday, March 14, 2011

Fit Tip: Attracting the right types of people into your life: Part 3


Now it's time to put all of the pieces together, if you've been participating in this wellness assignment. You have previously listed qualities you see in those who surround you most, such as co-workers or friends. You have listed your own most prominent qualities and characteristics. Now, let's compare. Do the qualities you see in others mirror or reflect the qualities you see in yourself?

Do you see any comparisons? Do you like the comparisons that you see?

I'm sure you've noticed in your life, that people come and go. That is for a reason. Some people stay. Each person in your life is there to teach you a lesson, or make you a better person for knowing them.

If your qualities and characteristics are not matching, then it's time to start focusing on your true values. What matters most to you. What qualities matter most to you. If you are not practicing those qualities that matter most to you, then you will never attract those qualites from others. It's just how the world works. If you value compassion in others, yet find that you are often uncompassionate, then you'll find it hard to find others who are compassionate. Maybe someone will come into your life to teach you a lesson, or help you to become more compassionate. This applies for any and all traits.

If you want to attract people who value fitness into your life, you must first begin to value fitness. If you want to attract honest people into your life, you must first become an honest person.

Like attracts like. Try it.

-Abby
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Fit Tip: Attracting the right types of people into your life: part 2


So, now that you've created a list of character qualities in those people who surround you most each day, it's time to take a look at yourself.

Look objectivley at your own life, or beter yet, have someone else write down characteristics and qualities they see most in you. Sometimes it's hard to see the good and/or bad qualities we most posess. (Don't forget, that EVERYONE posesses ALL qualities to certain extents). Which qualites about yourself pop off the page. List your qualities in order of most prominent. ie, if your most prominent characteristic in life is that you're a great listener, then that should be #1 on your list. If you find that you are often jealous, then that quality should be near the top of your list, and so on.

Stay tuned for part 3.

-Abby
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Fit Tip: Attracting the right types of people into your life: part 1


It's time to take a look at those who surround us every day. Are they enriching our lives? Are they hindering our growth? Are they helping us grow, in all ways, as a better, happier, more loving person? Let's break it down, with a small assignment, or "homework" as I call it with my clients.

First and foremost, I want you to write a list of 10-15 character qualities that are in the people who surround you most. You can focus on your co-workers/business parnters, or family and friends. Looking objectively at these people, what character traits do they have. Are they loving? selfish? jealous, caring? etc? Make this list. This is your first assignment.

Stay tuned for the next step!

-Abby
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Monday, March 7, 2011

A Runner's Guide to the Napa Valley Marathon


Coming to you as a recreational runner and marathon coach for over 8 years, I am here to share some words of wisdom, experience, and guidance about the Napa Valley Marathon (NVM). Being my 6th marathon in just about 7 years, I thought I knew how to train, and how "little" training I could actually get away with in order to run this race adequately. No elevation, few large hills, should have been a pretty standard training regimin. Yes, I did 10-12 weeks worth of training (could have used a few more), did a 12, 14, 16, and 18 miler pre-marathon, and still got to the marathon, feeling the most unprepared I ever had. Not that I hadn't trained well enough, or properly, but this would be my first ever marathon run in complete rain! I've run in wind, heat, and freezing cold, but never RAIN! A runner's worst nightmare! Will I get blisters? Will my shoes be too heavy? What will I wear? The what if's could go on and on. So, eventually I had to just shut myself up, and say "I'm going to ENJOY this race." And that is what I did. It was one of my favorite marathons, with great scenery, and a fast course (and I was able to do a personal best, even in the rain). Below, you'll read more info on this marathon, and hopefully it will inspire you to choose and participate in your first, second, third, or 30th marathon!

We'll start with registration for this race. If you decide you want to run this race, register early! Don't delay! Too many folks will get shut out if they wait, as this race is surely going to fill up every year. Some just register for the SWAG (stuff we all get), and yes, the NVM has some of the best SWAG of any marathon I have ever run. The duffle bag is great! Plus, now I have another long sleeve running shirt to sport as I run around town. (Though, why do they always make them white? Don't they know that white running shirts are all but see-through in the rain? If they make white running shirts, they should at least guarantee a sunny marathon day).

Next on the agenda is the race expo. Held at the Napa Valley Marriott, I found the expo to be very small and crowded. Sure it had all of the standard expo venders, such as the running attire, marathon snacks, sunglasses, and packet pickup locations, but it was very crowded and scattered in several different rooms. I usually like to stay and look around a while, but I decided to just get out as fast as I could. So, I didn't stay for any of the speakers, but the fact that they had a whole day's worth of speakers and events would make this expo worth it to attend. Best part, they also had RACE DAY PICKUP! May seem crazy, but it was the first marathon I ran that actually did that! Props to the NVM. Sometimes marathons don't realize that folks are traveling from out of town and can't get there until that morning. Even though I didn't take advantage of race day packet pickup, I was sure glad to see it as an option.

Race-Day. Well, driving from Sacramento at 3:45am in the pouring rain didn't get me pumped up for the marathon at all. With windshield wipers going as fast as they could, heat blasting, and nothing good on the radio at that hour, I kept thinking to myself, why am I doing this? A question that marathon runners will frequently ask themselves. (To each his own answers).

With great race-day instructions on their website, and my new GPS in the car, I was able to find the school where the parking and shuttle busses were, with zero difficulty. There were volunteers out there before 5am in the rain, directing traffic to the correct parking lots. Once parked and with a heavy garbage bag draped over me like a stylish dress, I decided to leave my post-race duffel bag in the car, and head to the shuttle busses at the entrance of the school. I could have taken my bag with clothes and sandals for after the race, to the start and had the bag drop bring it to the finish, but I decided that I could just as easily walk to my car after the race, to get my clothes to change into. It wasn't far at all. So, I took my camelback and essentials only on the shuttle bus. Only items that were racing with me came with me.

At the Start: Once the busses reached the starting area, they parked and I tried to stay on the bus as long as possible to stay warm and dry. I got out about 30 minutes pre-race to hop in the port-o-potty line, which was quite long, and took just about all the time I had. I even tried to use my port-o-potty logic. 1: Find the line with the most men. They are usually quicker. 2: Pick the line that has taken over the most stalls. 3: Find the shortest line near the far end of the row. Best quote of the bathroom line was one gentleman who just went behind the port-o-potties and came back saying, "Yea, I had no line, and a great view of the vineyards!" Oh, it must be nice to be a man on race days. Once out of line, the race was about to begin. I was ready, and my feet were already wet.

On the course: Just before crossing the start line, I ditched my garbage bag, and figured, heck with it. I'm going to be wet no matter what. At least the temperature was a mild 50 degrees. A whole lot better than last year at the CIM at a starting temperature of 28 degrees! The first mile was mainly downhill, so I was off to a fast start, adrenaline pumping. Still saying to myself, "I still have 25 miles to go." Rolling hills challenged many runners throughout the entire course, as I heard folks saying things like "I thought this race was going to be downhill." And yes, a net decline overall, but the rolling hills along the way could be deceiving for those ill-prepared to run hills. These hills were nothing, as compared to the Lake Tahoe Marathon or the Nike Women's Marathon in San Francisco. So, I felt confident in my hill running skills on these mild rolling hills.

Aid Stations: The aid stations along the course were great. About every 2 miles, was an aid station with water and gatorade. At the later stations they handed out oranges, banana's and gu. My only complaint: at a few stations, they used plastic cups instead of paper. Which means you can't squeeze the cup to make a funnel, and all the water spashes on your face, and plastic cups are easy to trip on when thrown on the ground. But besides that, the aid stations were not crowded, and there were 3-4 bathrooms at each station, usually with no line.

Volunteers and Organization: From what I saw, this race was extremely well organized. From the parking before the race, to the shuttle busses to the start, the aid stations and mile markers, and even the volunteers at the finish, it was very well organized. There was a volunteer to greet each runner individually at the finish line, give you water, and escorting you to the exit, asking how you were doing and making sure that you were all right after finishing the 26.2. It was a nice touch.

Post Race Festivities: After the race, there were locker rooms and restrooms to use (as there were pre-race before getting on the shuttle busses), hot soup and bread, and an entire gymnasium of massage therapists! It was the most massage therapists I have ever seen at the end of the marathon! It was very well organized and I definitely took advantage of that! Plus, you can't beat a free massage after a marathon! (though it's customary to tip a volunteer massage therapist, so make sure to have money on you!) The soup was delicious, and just what my stomach needed. Best part of all, was the fact that there was a locker room to change out of my drenched running clothes, and into fresh clothes that I had prepared ahead of time, and kept in my car. It would have been a long, cold, wet, drive home to Sacramento if I hadn't been able to change.

Spectators: Well, I can't say there were many spectators along the route. But then again, it was raining the entire morning. Most spectators out on the course were friends and family of runners, so you would see the same few faces pop up along the way. So, it's definitley not a race to run, if you only feed off of the energy of a crowd. If you like the crowds, excitment, music, bands every mile of the race, you may want to try a bigger, more crowded race in a city, such as Chicago, or Marine Corps Marathon in Washington, DC. Those races are two of the best for spectators and excitement along the way. In the NVM, you had to be your own spectator.

Overall, it was a pleasure to have the opportunity to experience the Napa Valley Marathon. There were a lot of first time marathonners out on the course, which was exciting, and tons of veteran runners. Having to be your own spectator meant you had to go deep inside your soul. You had to cheer for yourself. The hardest thing to do, is to tell yourself to keep going, when all you want to do is stop. But that's what a marathon is all about. It takes guts, determination, willpower, and a strong desire to accompish one of the greatest feats known to man. Knowing you got yourself from point A to point B, and the 26.2 miles in between, makes it all worth while. That's life though. We must learn to "cheer ourselves on." We are the only person that we can count on 100% and like in all tough challenges in life, we must rely on our individual strength. No one else can "do life" for us.

So, get out there. Challenge yourself. Hit the pavement. And someday, you too, can run the Napa Valley Marathon!

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Thursday, February 17, 2011

On March 6, I will complete my 6th marathon, in 6 years.


You would think I'd have given up after 1, maybe 2 marathons. You definitley would have thought I'd give up after 3, since my first 3 marathons were all over the 6 hour mark. I don't know what kept me going. Maybe it was my determination, ego, or whatnot, but I kept going. 4 and 5 were both in the 4 hour range, and now I'm on to #6. To me, it even sounds CRAZY! But again, I think you do have to be crazy to run a marathon. I take pride in that title though. It's an endurance event, that less than .1% of the population ever completes, and now, I am definitely part of that crazy, small percentage. March 6, I will run the Napa Valley Marathon, and get the enjoyment of a glass of wine at the finish line :) Though, not sure if that will be what my body craves after 26.2, the thought of it sounds fun.

So, if you've ever thought about running a marathon, but you're holding back because, well, simply you think you're too slow, then STOP YOUR THINKING! You will improve, so long as you don't give up! Who cares how fast you go, just finish and reach your goal!

Join me this April, as we train for the hilly, San Francisco Marathon on July 31, 2011! Find out more at www.liveforitall.com!

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Fit Tip: Thinking positively is as easy as a switch. Try it.

Changing your thoughts from negative to positive is as easy as a switch. It doesn't have to take years to change your mind. All it takes is a split moment. Those who are resistant to this idea, and think that it takes years to change your thinking, your beliefs, I challenge you. I want you right now to not think of a "pink elephant." No matter what, you think of a pink elephant, even if I say, don't think of it. Didn't think that works? Now think of a negative thought. If you can't come up with anything, think of a dog that was just hit by a car, on the side of the road, blood all around, etc. Can you picture it? Bet you can. If it's that easy to think of a negative thought, you better believe it's that easy to think of a positive thought. Just takes a simple moment to re-program your mind to be thinking positive thoughts rather than negative. If you catch yourself thinking negatively, take a split moment and think of something happy. Think of a dozen longstem red roses, or a trip that you went on that made you feel at peace, anything at all. It's a simple as a switch. Just do it!

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Monday, November 29, 2010

Fit Tip: You need a "new mind"

"You CANNOT fix a problem with the same mind that created the problem"

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Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Fit Tip: Don't let your food touch

One technique you can use on your Thanksgiving holiday to avoid overeating, but still allow you to enjoy everything you want, is to not let your food touch. Remember when you were a kid and you didn't want the bacon to touch the pancakes? (or, if you're an adult, like me, who still can't stand when food touches. If you make sure there's space between each type of food on your dinner plate, you are less likely to pile on the heaps, and enjoy smaller servings of each food. Then, by the time you clean your plate, you may possibly be full, and skip second servings! But studies show, the less you put on your plate, the less you will eat, subconsciously.

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Monday, November 22, 2010

Fit Tip: It's easy to do nothing... but...

"It's just as easy to do something, as it is to do nothing"

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Sunday, November 21, 2010

Fit Tip: on marathons and other tough things in life...

...on marathons and other tough things in life: "You're running on guts. On fumes. Your muscles twitch. You throw up. You're delirious. But you keep running because there's no way out of this hell you're in, because there's no way you're not crossing the finish line..."
- Martine Costello

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Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Fit Tip: What is simple to do...

Remember, "What is simple to do, is also simple to NOT do." Discipline yourself this holiday season when it comes to getting in your workouts and making healthy eating choices. http://liveforitall.blogspot.com

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Fit Tip: Stay Outside

Okay, so the weather outside may be changing from warm to cold, but, don't let that interfere with your outdoor fitness routine! Your body is amazingly adaptive to hot and cold weather. It generally takes 7-14 days to acclimate to temperature changes. The best way to adapt, is to simply continue with your routine, season to season. The right clothing along with the right attitude, will keep you on your program throughout the year.

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Fit Tip: Nike Women's Marathon & 1/2 Marathon


Ok folks. I wanted to let you all know my thoughts of the 2010 Nike Women's 1/2 and full marathon, that I participated in Sunday! Having just completed the Lake Tahoe Full Marathon 2 weeks ago, with almost a personal best time, I felt like I would be adequately prepared for the hills of San Francisco. Well... they were tough. I did have a PR for my 1/2 marathon time, but those hills were brutal! Overall, it was a great race, and I thoroughly enjoyed running it. I would recommend this race to others (both men and women can run the Nike Women's Marathon, so women, get your husbands or partners to run this race, you know they'll have to give you the Tiffany's finisher necklace anyways! Or run it together, so you can have 2 necklaces!)

Here are some pro's of the Nike Women's 1/2 Marathon:
-took me only 4 minutes to get to the start line, amongst the 20,000 runners
-got to see a lot of SF on 1 run
-It's not just for women! Men are welcome too!
-well, the Tiffany's finisher necklace
-well organized finish line area, with plenty of volunteers
-nice finisher shirts
-GREAT crowd support!
-Great volunteers
-Plenty of port-o-potties along the route
-weather was cool and great for running. A few sprinkles along the way. (tank top and shorts was sufficient, though I was fine in capri pants and a long sleeve coolmax shirt and running hat).

Here are some con's of the Nike Women's race:
-water stops: whose idea was it to use plastic cups in a running race? The point of paper cups is so that you can squeeze the cup and make a funnel, so that you don't splash yourself with water as you run! You can't squeeze plastic. Plus, people trip on them and they crunch. Tripping hazard.
-race expo had a line wrapped around Union Square to get in. (we refused to wait in line, so went to dinner instead, then went to the expo closer to closing when the line was shorter).
-race expo was crowded and very corporate. Not like a typical race expo where you can find neat running memorabilia or merchandise to purchase. It was all about nike's shoes and corporate clothing, from what I saw
-First 3 miles were very crowded. Lots of weaving in and out of people.
-First few water stops were so crowded and only on 1 side of the road, so you could completely miss it if you're on the left side, unless you want to risk your life by cutting across the running traffic those first few miles

Tips for future runners of this race:
-Train for hills! Take one of my hill running workshops! (www.liveforitall.com)
-Be aware of crowded first few miles
-BRING YOUR OWN WATER/FLUID SO YOU CAN AVOID THE WATER STATIONS
-Have a friend or spectator pick you up at the finish so you can avoid taking the shuttle busses! (as goes for any race, if you can!)

Monday, October 11, 2010

Fit Tip: Having a Bad Day? Put a Clock on it!


Everyone has bad days. The key is to put a clock on it. Allow yourself some time to sort through it all then hit the reset button and keep it moving. Whenever you are having a bad day, what is the best thing you can do to help cheer yourself up?

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Thursday, October 7, 2010

Fit Tip: It's time to celebrate!

Make sure to take time to celebrate your accomplishments before moving on to the next challenge. It's important to reward yourself for the hard work you've done. If we never reward ourselves, why would we want to continue working as hard as we do?! TAKE THE TIME! TAKE A BREAK! CELEBRATE! THEN GET MOVING AGAIN!

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Sunday, October 3, 2010

Fit Tip: Do what you love, love what you do


I am so grateful to be able to do what I love, and love what I do. Let's take today for example. After 10 weeks of training, about 25 runners in my training program completed a 1/2 marathon! For most, it was their first ever half marathon. For others, they were just coming back for more. But in any and all cases, everyone came out to accomplish his or her own personal goals. I got the privilage to cheer them on along the route, and help inspire them to keep on "moooovin'" (yes, I was dressed up as a cow, since it was, the Urban Cow 1/2 Marathon in Sacramento!). It gives me goosebumps to see everyone succeed, the least I can do is humiliate myself in a cow costume!

Next, I was able to help 4 individuals conquor their nutrition and health challenges by finishing up the Standard Process 21 day purification program. Today was day 21, and they truly became healthier from the inside during the past 3 weeks. I can see it in them, even if they don't just yet. You learn so much about yourself doing a healthy program like that. Everyone lost between 11 and 24 pounds and many many inches, mostly in the belly!

Last, but not least, was the best yet. It was the final class of my 5 Weeks to 5k clinic (www.5weeksto5k.com), and in it, I was able to work one on one with a young lady, who just 5 weeks ago, never believed running a 5k was possible. Today she did it. I was just there to help her realize that SHE COULD DO IT ALL ON HER OWN! With the practice, skills, and everything in place, she was ready, and she accomplished what she never believed possible.

So, congratulations to everyone who achieved a goal, a dream, today. Hats off to you! And hats off to everyone who is able to love what they do, and do what they love every day. I know I chose the right profession, because of days and moments like today!

Monday, September 27, 2010

Fit Tip: They say you must forget the pain of your last marathon before you sign up for your next one.

Who would have thought I would have ever completed 5 marathons? Me, the girl who used to hate running! Now, I'm a running coach, and a 5x marathonner! Granted, I'm no elite runner, but running has become my passion. For those of you who don't know, I just completed the Lake Tahoe Marathon yesterday. It's been less than 24 hours since the start of the marathon, and boy, was it a tough race. Between 6000 and 7000 feet elevation, mile+ long hills, and breathtaking scenery, I can say it was truly a challenging morning. But, being my 5th marathon, I was ready for a challenge, right? Well, it sounded good at the time I signed up last March. But I must say, this race was great. Besides being one of the hardest races I have ever run, it was truly beautiful and well organized. Everything from the bus ride to the start, to the great water and aid stations along the way. I know it probably wasn't good for my stomach, but the cookies at the later aid stations made me smile and gave me that little motivation to keep running.

They say if you run a 3 hour marathon normally, the best you should do in Tahoe is add 6 minutes, taking into account the elevation and hills. If that were the case, I should be able to add about 10 minutes to my PR time of 4:51 (I think), and I would have had a personal record in this Lake Tahoe marathon, finishing in 4:58. Not many people can PR on this course though, so I am proud of my race.

But it's true what they say. You must forget the pain of your last marathon before you even think about your next one. Today I will ice, rest, and take a lot of naps to overcome the soreness. So, with that said, give me a day or so until I think about which race I'd like to run next!

Monday, August 30, 2010

Fit Tip: Facebook/ Twitter Challenge

I hope those of you who took on my "8 for a healthy weight" challenge last week have succeeded and began to incorporate more fruits and veggies in to your diet. This week, I wanted to give you a different type of challenge. A social challenge. All too often we say negative things, think negative thoughts, and, well, are overall negative. When you say negative things outloud, OR type negative things on websites such as facebook and twitter, not only do you promote negativity, but it sends negative energy out for all the world to see. We definitley do not need any more of this, so my challenge to you this week, is to be CONSCIOUS of your update posts, and make sure EVERY post you write this week is of a positive nature. Let's stop the spread of negative thoughts over the internet. When you post how horrible of a day you have, well, nothing good can come of that. Only those folks who want to commiserate in negativity will respond. Let's see if we can appreciate positivity in our words we type this week. Go ahead. Maybe it will make you change your negative thoughts into positive ones, thus making you feel better about life in general.

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Fit Tip: Veggie & Fruit Challenge. "8 For A Healthy Weight!"

To everyone who reads this blog: I challenge you this week, of August 22, 2010 to eat at least 8 servings of veggies and fruits each day. (Make sure not to have more fruits than veggies). Aim for 5+ servings of veggies. In America, the saying goes, "5 a day" of fruits and veggies, and as a society, we tend to eat more fruits than veggies. Be careful about this, since there is a lot of sugar (fructose) in fruits, make sure to balance it out by eating twice as many veggies. In Australia, the saying goes "8 for a healthy weight." So, in good Aussie spirit, this week, aim for 8 for a healthy weight!

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Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Fit Tip: "Win The Day"

After a short break from blogging my daily fit tips, I'm back! Today, my daily fit tip is about "winning the day."

Thanks to fitness trainer, Todd Durkin, I have adopted a new approach to daily goal setting. Call it: "Win the day." Don't worry about tomorrow, or next month. Focus on winning each day. What 5 things do you have to get done TODAY in order to consider your day, won, or succesful? This teaches you to focus more on those things that maybe you have been procrastinating on. If you skip your workout today, could you consider your day won? If not, then you better get it done! Win the day, and you will win in life. Don't worry about winning the entire race, just the day.

My challenge to you: Every day this week, create your 5 things that you must get done on each specific day in order to win the day. See how it makes you feel! I love it, and every time there are things that I have been pushing aside that must get done, I feel more motivated to just do them, so that I can win the day!

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2010 Motto: "No Excuses"

"Put Your Money Where Your Health Is"